With loss comes learning...

Why is it that the minute you try to do something good, so many things go bad? I'll I've wanted to do lately is stick to the program and lose weight. I know that there will always be temptations out there and things getting in my way, but so far I haven't had much luck avoiding the situations. I do however, think I've done well overcoming my obstacles so far.

Something I forgot to mention on my weigh-in day post was that this past Sunday, on Mother's Day, my neighbor passed away after being in a large car accident. At first I didn't realize how much it might affect me, but especially after going to the funeral yesterday, I realized how sad I was that I would never be able to walk my dog with him and his two dogs every morning like we used to. Of course it's not like losing a family member, but it's sad nonetheless. This morning my dog even tried to pull me up to his house and started wimpering. Poor puppy. He misses his friend.

Avoiding temptations was difficult, especially with the family inviting neighbors over to share the food brought over by others as a thanks for all of the caring and support (I live in a very friendly community). I'm proud that I avoided the temptations and stuck to my Jenny Craig meals and left the food for the family and well, anyone else who wanted some. Score one point for me and my will power!

It's really tough to lose someone, be it a friend, or a family member. I was speaking with a friend of mine yesterday about my weight loss goals and she said something that really stuck with me. When we were talking about how I put weight on after my grandmother's passing because I didn't know how to deal with the loss, she said that was excusable; as long as I didn't let it happen again. The important thing is that now that I have experienced it and begun to overcome it, I can't go back. The next time I am faced with a loss like this, I now have some experience in dealing with it and can hopefully prevent it from having a negative effect on my life, like gaining weight. Definitely a good lesson to learn.